I have been always told that when you’re given a gift, it’s the thought that counts. However, what’s the best way to handle your surprise when you receive a gift and are clueless as to why the giver ever thought you would like it?

This is the appropriate time to remember it really is the thought that counts. First, smile.

Then, here a few things you might say:

• “This was so thoughtful of you.” Then quickly describe how you are going to use it.
• “I am so surprised and will think of you when I use it.”
• “I was just thinking about this and am so pleased you thought of it first for me.”

The number one thing is remember is to reach deep down and be sincere. If you cannot say anything positive – you can still smile and say, “It was so nice of you to do this.”

Of course, always say thank you!